Why do we hurt those we love and how to stop this
You love each other but can`t manage to communicate without arguing, fighting and ending up exhausted, each one in his corner, trying to lick his wounds. We all need energy to build our personality and to find our place in society. But as long as we think this energy has to come from other human beings, we will get caught up in struggle. Because human energy is limited. We have to fight for it. Human energy doesn`t last. There isn`t enough of it. So we have to be the quickest, the most beautiful one, to attract the attention from the other and to pull his energy. If this doesn`t work, we try to pull attention by negative behavior.
Mixed religion relationships
Most relationships require compromise and effort if they are going to succeed, but what about when you come from different religious backgrounds? Whatever background you come from, there will always be some differences between you and your partner. If you completely disagree on important issues you may find life difficult. You don't always have to agree, just as long as those disagreements don't become monumental hurdles that you'll never get over. Friends might believe stereotypes and have negative reactions at first. Explain to them how you feel about your partner and let them meet each other and form their own opinions based on the person rather than the religion.
Disagreeing with Loved Ones
Most lovers' quarrels are never resolved—and that's ok. Most of the things you and your spouse are fighting about today, you'll still be fighting about a decade from now. It turns out that that's no cause for alarm. According to professor John Gottman couples argue about the same issues 69% of the time. They don't resolve their problems. In fact, Gottman's long-term studies of more than 670 couples show, many of the problems couples regularly argue about are actually insoluble.
The ABCs Of Relationship Recovery: How To Get Away With Anything
You did it again. You forgot her birthday or your anniversary, you got caught flirting with another girl, you stood her up by mistake because of car trouble, or you stood her up because you forgot. Whatever the crime, now you have to do the time. How can you bounce back from your dating faux pas and regain her trust and affection? (A) - Admit you made a mistake. (B) - Be sincere.
How To Stop The Fighting In Your Relationship
For some couples fighting is the fire that keeps their relationships alive. It lets them know the other cares. Many are determined to win a battle that never ends. Others try to right the wrongs they have experienced in the past with someone new. Unfortunately, this kind of behavior is doomed to failure. When we bring baggage from a former relationship into the present, all new relationships simply become a continuation of the past.
Secrets Of Resolving Conflict—Why Words Alone Won`t Work
When resolving conflict, words alone don`t make peace. The secret to resolving conflict with words is sincerity, which is accomplished is by matching your words with your actions, or more specifically, your nonverbal communication. `I`m sorry` - Unless you believe their words, this phrase just doesn`t work. Why not? Well, It doesn`t work because its an overused phrase. We say or hear `I`m sorry` on a daily basis.