There are more ways you can attract men

http://www.vanguardngr.com/articles/2002/columns/womantowomen/ww14042007.html
2007-04-14

Why did I know you would be the first to get here this week? I just knew you would be here. I don’t believe that there is any woman who read me last week that would not be here today. The truth is that every woman wants to be the woman men adore and never want to leave. I found out that many woman get this kind of information from women, and probably that is why we do not have the insights that we really need to have.

Women also flock to women’s magazines for advice on how to be desirable to men. Unfortunately, most of the tips contained in such magazines were written by women for women  and they don’t necessarily give an accurate take on what men consider irresistibly sexy. That nice new shade of lipstick, pretty earrings, a designer dress or the latest hair color very rarely turns a man on the way women think they do.

Those things are meant to impress other women, not men. And while beauty is a powerful attractant, there are so many other qualities beyond beauty that capture a man’s heart.I bet you thought today, I would be writing on how you can get sexy, by opening a few more buttons and showing your cleavage or how you would do the sexy walk. Or you thought I would be telling you to spend more money on everything from perfume to lingerie to get you more sexy.

Believe me, all that is good. Sex is good. It would get a man in your bed in a hurry, but that is not what we are about today.  It really does not cost anything for a woman to get a man in her bed. Infact, if you wanted a different man in your bed everyday, it is so easy, that would only make you a slut, and that is not what we are talking about here. Not too many men would say no to free sex without commitments and with no strings attached.

What we are talking about is getting the man you want with dignity, whenever you want and to keep him in love with you, adoring you and always wanting to be with you. I am so sure that every woman wants to maximize her attractiveness to men and improve her over-all self confidence and well being. I am so sure you know some women who are not particularly pretty, or who don’t have a sexy body, but always seem to attract the most men anywhere they go. Men are just drawn to these women.

 They just can’t take their eyes off her. I bet you would like to be that woman to your husband or to the man in your life. Won’t you just want to be the center of men’s attention everywhere you go, making your man so proud of you? Won’t you just like to have undivided attention of your husband or boyfriend. So, I began to talk to men, and read men who have expertise in relationship counseling. So we can actually say that this is “MEN TO WOMAN TO WOMEN”

There are secrets that can unlock the heart of a man  and you can use these secrets to bring a man to his knees, and gain an unfair advantage over other women. If you were to ask a man for his opinion on what’s irresistible to men, first of all, he may or may not give you an honest answer. His answer will depend on several factors, such as whether or not he thinks his answer will ingratiate him to you; whether or not he wants to give you information that you can use to exercise power over him; or a host of other factors.

Additionally, a man may not have the ability to pinpoint exactly what it is about a woman that he finds sexy  he just knows what’s sexy when he sees it. Worst of all, one man’s opinion usually does not represent the opinion of the majority of men  one man may be fixated on breasts, another might be a leg man, and another might have a booty fetish, and so on.

What I’’ve compiled here according to a licensed professional counselor and relationship coach for seventeen years are the top 7 things that the majority of men find irresistible in a woman. They are as follows:1) SMILE:

Believe it or not, one of the top things that a man finds sexy in a woman is something that’’s well within your reach. And that is, your smile. A university study was conducted a few years ago, wherein the main objective was to find out exactly what men meant when they described women as “cute” or “attractive”.

Was it that she was tall, buxom, had long hair, long legs, full lips or a certain look? They interviewed hundreds of male students, and they found a common ingredient.

A woman who smiles was always deemed considerably more attractive. Smiling tells a man that a woman is pleased with him, or that she genuinely likes men  and that attitude is very enticing to a man. Put off that bitchy act that drives that man away from you or further away from home. Believe me it works. See you next week.


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